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My Oxford Year is wrong to normalise staff-student romances

Netflix’s university-set romcom is strangely silent about the ethics of college tutors sleeping with their students, says Robert Dingwall

Published on
August 27, 2025
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August 27, 2025
My Oxford Year film still, from left: Corey Mylchreest, Sofia Carson, 2025
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A couple of weeks ago, I was recovering from two intensive conferences and an overnight flight home from Chicago via Dublin. An undemanding evening’s viewing was clearly indicated. Scrolling through the new offerings from my streaming service, my eye lit on My Oxford Year.

This, I thought, might fit the bill, with the bonus of some added humour from the representation of a city and university I know quite well. In the same way, a Nottingham cinema audience always finds extra jokes in any Robin Hood movie.?My Oxford Year is, indeed, undemanding viewing but it has a profound moral vacuum at its heart that should disturb audiences.

The basics of the film are recognisably cobbled together from various sources. The core plot is taken from Love Story, the 1970 film with Ali McGraw and Ryan O’Neal based on a best-selling novel by Erich Segal, then a Yale academic. Anna, the American student in Oxford, is a clone of Emily in Paris. The quirky “best friends”, who appear from time to time like a Greek chorus, seem to have strayed in from a Richard Curtis movie.

Perhaps the most novel element is that Jamie, the male lead, clearly comes from a background as rich as Brideshead, without the attitude. Indeed, Oxford snobbery gets very short shrift from Anna early in the film. Today, it seems the rich can be the same as any other student but simply drive antique Jaguars.

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Unlike many fictional depictions of academic life, the film does, however, get quite a few things more or less right. Film is a visual medium so the designer outfits may be forgiven, even though it is never clear how Anna, from an ethnic working-class background in Queens, New York, can afford the international student fees for her master’s course.

Some viewers have objected to the description of this course. While it is true that the MA is a paid-for degree at Oxford, the university does offer one-year taught postgraduate courses and there is a limit to the amount of medieval arcana that can be presented to the audience.

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The students do actually appear to do some work, although I suspect that the actual study of Victorian poetry might be a little less pretentious in real life. When Anna suddenly leaves Boat Race celebrations in London, a quick shot establishes that she has used the express bus to get back to Oxford, rather than a limo.

The university and colleges, of course, look as ravishing as ever. The filming in Duke Humfrey’s Library, within the Bodleian, captures one of the most beautiful indoor spaces to be seen anywhere and it is not surprising that it is the setting for one of the big romantic scenes.

The sudden reveal that the professor whose reputation has attracted Anna to Oxford will not be teaching the course because she has taken on some administrative duties is also recognisable. In fact, the professor appears to make a habit of this.

She does, though, appear on the first day to introduce Jamie as her PhD student, who will actually lead the seminars and provide one-to-one supervision while she vaguely oversees his marking of the assessments.

This is the point at which the film’s ethics become questionable. Jamie is Anna’s teacher. While the fact that they are both graduate students may make a relationship less tacky than one between a graduate student and an undergraduate, it does not change the fundamental imbalance of power and responsibility.

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Now it is true that Anna is completely smitten and throws herself at Jamie, despite warnings from the best friends that he is a “serial shagger”. This in itself raises?concerns about why he has been given this class to teach, if this is, indeed, his reputation. Is Professor Styan as disengaged from her PhD students as from her master’s course? Would his contact with students not be more closely overseen?

Jamie does turn down Anna’s first invitation to come up to her room for “tea and crumpet” but this is on personal rather than professional grounds. To say more would be a plot spoiler, although it is worth noting that Anna appears to be unaware of the double entendre of “crumpet” in her invitation.

When they do begin an intimate relationship, this is framed as a mutually convenient short-term arrangement – Anna has a job lined up in Wall Street for the following year and Jamie doesn’t do commitment. Being a romcom, both are, of course, denying their true feelings for each other. There is, though, still no acknowledgement – by any of the characters – that the relationship might be morally problematic. The tragic dimension of the film – see Love Story – seems to excuse everything else.

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This might be overburdening a frothy movie. However, there is a serious point. Every report on sexual harassment in Oxford since I was working there in the 1980s has pointed to graduate students and postdocs as the key fault-line. This may be a reporting bias but it may also be that established academics are better able to manage the temptations. Early-career teachers are closer in age and life experience to their students and may find it harder to maintain boundaries, especially if they are unfamiliar with UK expectations.

The Oxford tutorial system rests on their labour and the university has tried hard both to discourage teacher-student relationships and to manage their consequences. There is certainly continuing debate about whether the university has done enough and whether it has had sufficient cooperation from some colleges.

Nevertheless, the Jamie-Anna relationship clearly crosses the institutional line. A real Jamie would have to declare the relationship and be removed as Anna’s teacher.

My Oxford Year is not intended as a serious critique of sexual misconduct in universities and it would be unfair to judge it in that way. Nevertheless, it does normalise a type of relationship that is deeply problematic, and this should be called out. Tragic love does not excuse all missteps in life.

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Robert Dingwall is emeritus professor of sociology at Nottingham Trent 51国产视频 and emeritus professor and founding director of the Institute of Science and Society at the 51国产视频 of Nottingham.

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To be fair, the film said he was a 'professor' but then we were told he was still completing his own PhD and so was probably more like a part-time tutor...
I don't think there are many "Professors" who have not completed their PhDs are they? The wider world really can't see what the fuss is about. In fact, they seem to see the possibility as rather charming, provided of course the leads are photogenic and attractive. Now what would we be saying of the Professor were to have been portrayed by that very fine , but prodigously ugly, acor, the late Warren Clarke, for example? I also watched that Prime Target series on Prime I think set mainly in Cambridge. The thing I found odd is that neither of the leads (despite spending huge amounts of time running very fast in heavy clothing (in Cambridge, London, Baghdad, Paris etc etc) ever seemed to change their clothing even sleeping in their clothing. So they are not very realistic those productions and perhaps we are breaking a buttefly on the wheel here? But I guess the point os that the public seem to expect that sort of thing to happen and don't see it as especially problematic as the leads are both adults.
'A real Jamie would have to declare the relationship and be removed as Anna’s teacher'. In theory, yes this should happen, but it does not always happen. Perhaps the film got this right?
Presumably only if he was assessing her work. There is not usually a requirement to stop teaching a student, only not to assess them or be in any situation where that assessment could be compromised. She could still attend his lectures, and possibly his seminars (although this would be more of a grey area).
If he were a postgrad tutor and he started that malarkey he might well find that his teaching would be withdrawn. I think those in that position just keep it quiet. Unless Anna were to complain for some reason no-one would be any the wiser? Of course as well all know abuse of power between staff and students does happen but, in my experience at least, it is comparatively rare though we probably all know one or two more notorious cases. But the most pervasive sexual harrassment for students, characteristically female students, is peer to peer not staff to student according to the OfS report. Reading this and other articles recently, I shudder to think what view of our profession an outsider would gain, imagining we are all assidously grooming our students for pur own purpose, rather than working long hours preparing classes, providing counselling,and trying to give them the best education we can, only to be rewarded with threats of redundancy.
I would advise people to watch the film and make up their own minds. I lasted about 20 minutes because it was so awful but the poetry seminar scene is troubling, with Jamie's teaching style based on flirting with the pretty American using various pre-planned methods (he brings in a Victorian sponge cake and demands that students eat it, to emphasise how we should never pass up opportunities to live life to the full, indulge our appetites, etc)
I'll give 'My Oxford Year' a go! Sounds fun..... My favourite university lampoon remains the novel 'Moo' by Jane Smiley; hilarious. Esp the (spoiler alert) academic conducting a simulation using a robot cast adrift in the university swimming pool (to test reactions to loneliness)...let's just say electonics and water are never good companions....
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My Oxford Year It’s a split decision from this teaching academic, who is also a bit of an old romantic. Let’s take the second thing, first! I have to say that initial derision was overcome by my romantic tendencies! It’s a drama in the same vein as films like Truly, Madly, Deeply, One Day and Bridget Jones. There’s laughter and humour (the dim student, the nerdy and bitchy ones), but there’s also room to shed a tear. I did find it affecting – not least as a dad, in seeing a family relationship under strain. But then, if I don my academic cape, there are definite flaws and stereotypes: So, the academic manager says to the main male character (Jamie, a drop-dead gorgeous thirty-something alleged-professor and stud), “he actually wants to teach…. that’s his look out”! Playing to the hackneyed idea that those who can research, those who can’t, teach. Then there’s the responsibility-free academic load that Jamie seems to have – no admin for him, the odd seminar with a handful of students, no collegiate activities…. he basically floats from pub, to party, to picnic, with some nice reading time in between, in the Bodleian Library! Which brings us to the sumptuous settings and the fact that it is – inevitably – a year in Oxford; such an obvious setting – in a Russell Group HEI - featuring the wonderful Pitt Rivers Museum and Bridge of Sighs. A pity not to take a road less travelled and rebadge it as “My Year in Keele” for example! Then there are the telegenic class rooms and plush student accommodation – it’s unreal. But I do agree that the central theme – a relationship between an academic and one of their students – completely ignores that this could be problematic; in terms of unequal power between the two; how this might go down with other students; and the doubtful marking of assignments by your lover! And what about this young professor without a PhD – is that credible in 2025? So, in conclusion: I enjoyed it; but in doing so, reality was suspended. And I do completely agree with Robert Dingwall’s summary that “My Oxford Year is not intended as a serious critique of sexual misconduct in universities and it would be unfair to judge it in that way. Nevertheless, it does normalise a type of relationship that is deeply problematic, and this should be called out.” James Derounian

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